In this pursuit we get the opportunity to stress ourselves daily, even hourly. The assault on our mind and body is relentless, even if it is largely self-imposed. We measure a good practice session by how tired we are or how banged up we feel. We can pretend there is some scientific formula but we all know, sometimes the only way we are happy with a practice session is if we are exhausted.
Staying physically healthy is a pretty simple equation. Eat nutrient dense food, drink enough water, and engage in recovery techniques.
How do we stay mentally healthy? How do we stay motivated, engaged, and striving to keep that edge? Time with friends, and family is an obvious answer. Shutting off the TV, social media, and the constant stream of negativity the masses seem to clamor for, and are addicted to. I had the opportunity to bounce from social media for a few months. It was nice. I missed seeing pictures of my friends, or reading of their escapades but I didn’t miss the constant barrage of negativity. I joined several business groups where I was surrounded by positive, performance focused, business minded folks. I noticed a change in my habits and behaviors. Conversations that weren’t centered around performance, reaching goals, ideas, concepts, thoughts, and getting things done quickly became of no interest. It seemed like everyone I talked to, or spent time around energized me.
I slowly began to realize something. I was mentally recovering faster than ever. Mental hits knocked me down, but I was bouncing back faster than ever. I lost the desire to wallow. To milk every bit of negativity from every situation. To see gloom and doom. That side of me was diminished. Strangely, I was also experiencing faster physical recovery than any previous time. We all know the mental and physical aspects of ourselves are intwined but I think sometimes we forget just how much one affects the other.
When it comes to diet, strength, conditioning or technique work we know it’s as simple as asking ourselves; will this take me closer to my goals of enhanced or improved performance. If the answer is yes, then we do it. If the answer is no, then we abstain. It’s time we actively apply this to the mental side. Will this thought, conversation, or what I’m about to read/watch/listen to take me closer to my goals of improved performance? If yes the carry on. If the answer is no, then stop immediately.
We have to start guarding our mental health as vigorously as we do our physical health. Our body is a holistic creature, the mental and physical aspects are so completely linked there is no way we can engage in behavior that damages or at least limits the performance of one without it affecting the other.